We asked some of the wisest people we know what they would tell their younger selves. Check out their responses below.
Chélo Fanfan
I would tell my younger self that a lot of the things we think are important really aren’t. Don’t pour so much energy into friendships or people who aren’t truly invested in you. Protect your time, protect your peace, and focus on building yourself first — the right people will align with you along the way. Read more >>>
Shirah Benarde
You are beautiful just the way you are and everything is going to workout better than you imagined. Read more >>>
Treniece Green
Your body is not too much, your imagination is not too out of the box, and one day the very creativity and body they teased you for will be the reason people admire you, please do not shrink babygirl. I promise it gets better! Read more >>>
Pearl Farquharson
“Baby girl… You are enough.” There are moments when I scroll back through my phone, down memory lane, and come across a photo of myself, whether from one year ago or ten. Almost instantly, I can remember exactly how I felt in that moment. Read more >>>
Al Miller
Trust the process and believe in yourself. Every challenge you face is preparing you for the person you’re meant to become. Read more >>>
Minerva Salles
I will make mistakes; however, I will learn from them with grace. I have come to understand that missteps are not signs of failure, but invitations to grow. Every stumble has taught me something valuable about resilience, humility, and the power of reflection. I no longer fear mistakes; I welcome them as part of the process. Read more >>>
catherine JAIMES
There’s no need to worry excessively about the future; life, through its experiences, will gradually show you the path that truly leads to happiness. Everything you set out to achieve is attainable with consistent effort and dedication, but it’s essential to learn to appreciate and enjoy each stage of the process. Read more >>>
Sheikera ‘Ginger’ Coutain
“If I could say one kind thing to my younger self, it would be this: You are already equipped to conquer the world, and it’s okay to let go of what no longer serves you. There will be moments when the tears fall, and in those moments, know that they are not signs of weakness, but of purification. Read more >>>
Gabe Alonso
Trust your gut—it’s louder than fear for a reason!! Read more >>>
Linsi Matteson
Trust yourself and make as many mistakes as possible. Read more >>>
Tingting Wu
I would tell her: “Always believe in yourself. You have no idea how brilliant you can become—even just three years from now.” There will be moments when things feel uncertain or slow, but don’t lose faith. Keep going. Keep hope in your heart. You are meant to be exceptional—not by following others, but by trusting your instincts and honoring your gifts. Read more >>>
