We all think we’re being real—whether in public or in private—but the deeper challenge is questioning whether we truly know our real selves at all. In any case, even when we know ourselves we might face various pressures that push us to fit in or not cause trouble – so even the most well-intentioned person might struggle to always be 100% real in public. Sometimes the simplest questions are actually the most complex. Thankfully, we have some wonderful members of the community who offered to share their thoughts on this challenging question.
Tanicia Pratt
Of course. I don’t believe in making ‘brands’ out of humans… perhaps, style but people are too complex to ever be branded. So, I don’t see the point in creating a version of myself untethered from my reality. Especially as poets, we more than anyone, should be connected to our humanity. Read more >>>
Lilly Lovely
The public version of me—the COO, the makeup artist, the writer, the podcast host—is absolutely real. It represents the parts of me that I’ve worked hard to build: the ambitious, creative, and passionate person who is driven to make an impact. My professional successes, are all authentic parts of my story. However, the public version is not the complete me. Read more >>>
FwMazi
nah I’m really just a chill guy… Read more >>>
Kenneth McMillan
Yes—and also, not entirely. What people see is authentically me; I don’t fake my energy or personality. But it’s a curated part of who I am—shaped by the content I create, the energy I bring in that moment, and what I feel called to share. It’s the version of me that’s aligned with service, creativity, and connection. Read more >>>
Lexy Bin
No. I have different personality for every environment. Read more >>>
Brittney Coke
Yes — the public version of me is absolutely the real me. I am who I post to be. What you see online is a true reflection of my personality, my style, my values, and my journey. I show up as myself, whether I’m sharing a glam look, a business update, or a personal moment. Read more >>>
Josephine Cancel
Yes, the public version of me is the real me. I am genuine, transparent, and strong. What you see is a true reflection of a woman of faith and unwavering commitment. I don’t wear masks—I walk in truth and purpose.” Read more >>>
erik hijweege
Yes, as I am living my passion the images I create are from the heart. Read more >>>
Andres Rodriguez
I believe the public version of myself is not the genuine me. I say this because there are so many layers to a person that it is very difficult to showcase all of that to the public eye. Read more >>>
Nicole Scotto
Yes! I feel extremely lucky to be able to be my authentic self in my work. Many people have to hide parts of themselves to be considered ‘professional’ in their work. For me, the passion for helping people feel seen, heard and understood is completely authentic. Read more >>>
Shannon Summerville-Interian
This is a great question. I have always been told my whole life that I have no filter and too honest. I never understood that. I hate to be lied to or told one thing but it really be something else. I am originally from Brooklyn so maybe that’s where that rawness comes from. What you see is what you get. Read more >>>
Eric Wind
Yes, I try to be transparent and honest in all things and think that is conveyed to my friends, clients, and colleagues. Read more >>>
