We all think we’re being real—whether in public or in private—but the deeper challenge is questioning whether we truly know our real selves at all. In any case, even when we know ourselves we might face various pressures that push us to fit in or not cause trouble – so even the most well-intentioned person might struggle to always be 100% real in public. Sometimes the simplest questions are actually the most complex. Thankfully, we have some wonderful members of the community who offered to share their thoughts on this challenging question.
Aqua Ivy
I would say the public version of me is absolutely the real me, just expressed in different ways depending on the platform. On Twitch, I’m a gamer first. I’m loud, I’m silly, I get frustrated, I joke around, and that’s genuinely who I am. It’s the place I feel the most at home because I can be completely transparent. Read more>>
Shae Bynes
People who first follow me online and later meet me in person usually say the same thing: I’m exactly who they expected. Authenticity is one of my highest core values, so I don’t compartmentalize who I am. Whether I’m speaking on a stage, advising a leader, or relaxing with family and friends, what you see is what you get. Read more>>
Jen Salk
Yes, the public version of me is the real me. I share authentically… messy house, pajamas on, no makeup, no filters because I believe people connect through honesty, not perfection. I will even share parts of my therapy journey if I think it might help someone else feel less alone. Read more>>
