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If you could say one kind thing to your younger self, what would it be?

We asked some of the wisest people we know what they would tell their younger selves. Check out their responses below.

Bugz

I’d tell myself: keep being weird, and don’t fear the shadows. What you create for yourself matters more than what anyone else sees Read more>>

VALERIE

You are valuable because you are made in the imago Dei. You don’t have to be perfect or the best at something to be valuable. Perfection is an idol that you shouldn’t chase in an attempt to prove your worth – you have self-worth from the day you come into existence. Read more>>

Isabel Ermoli

I will tell my younger self not to be so scared of taking chances. You don’t always need to have everything figured out before jumping in. It’s okay to take a risk, make mistakes, and learn as you go. Some moments will be messy, others amazing, and that’s part of the story. Every stumble teaches you something valuable. Read more>>

Holly Baron

Holly, you are smart, never doubt that. Being conditioned to think you were stupid, slow, or just ‘pretty’ was truly misguided. Over time, you’ll realize the people closest to you will play three roles: some will see your light from the very beginning and wholeheartedly support you. Read more>>

Jamaal Jones

I would tell my younger self that your contributions to your family and the community around you are going to be impactful and felt for years to come. You’ve worked really hard and lead by example and are truly living the life that you’ve always dreamt of. Read more>>

Tony Rouse

“One day you’ll be the man.” I know that sounds cheesy and corny, but I grew up shy. College was my evolution to becoming “Tony Rouse”, but there was glimpses of it in high school. Read more>>

Edda Davila

Be kind to yourself, you got this, nothing is permanent, you are allowed to make mistakes, be strong and never loose sight of what is important to you. find pleasure in little things, and paint! Read more>>

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