Wilnesha Wintons shared their story and experiences with us recently and you can find our conversation below.
Wilnesha , a huge thanks to you for investing the time to share your wisdom with those who are seeking it. We think it’s so important for us to share stories with our neighbors, friends and community because knowledge multiples when we share with each other. Let’s jump in: What battle are you avoiding?
What I’m battling right now is protecting my peace in a world that feels heavy, there is so much chaos, hate, and uncertainty. Like many women today, I’m experiencing unemployment, and that’s forced me to really focus on what I can control: my mindset and my purpose. I’ve learned to tune out the noise and pour into what feeds my spirit, and that is my faith and my love for fashion. Both remind me that peace doesn’t come from the world; it comes from within.
Can you briefly introduce yourself and share what makes you or your brand unique?
I’m Wilnesha Wintons or Winn for short, a fashion stylist with a deep love for helping clients express who they are through style. For me, fashion isn’t just about clothes; it’s about confidence, creativity, and storytelling. I’m passionate about creating looks that reflect each person’s individuality and make them feel their absolute best, whether it’s for a photoshoot, an event, or everyday life.
My brand is built on the idea that style is personal, celebrating who you are in every season of life. I’m currently working on expanding my styling portfolio and building stronger connections within the fashion, beauty, and lifestyle space. What makes my work unique is the genuine connection I build with each client. I take the time to understand their energy, their goals, and the story they want to tell through their look.
Okay, so here’s a deep one: What’s a moment that really shaped how you see the world?
A moment that really shaped how I see the world was experiencing unemployment during a time of so much uncertainty. It reminded me that nothing in life is guaranteed, not stability, not opportunity, not even routine. That realization was difficult but also eye opening. It taught me the importance of slowing down and taking care of myself: mentally, emotionally, and spiritually.
Through that season, I learned that self-care isn’t selfish; it’s survival. I had to learn how to protect my peace, stay grounded in my faith, and focus on the things that truly bring me joy like fashion and creativity. It’s what keeps me hopeful and inspired, even when life feels unpredictable.
Is there something you miss that no one else knows about?
Something I miss that not many people know about is the sense of comfort and closeness I had when I lived in Florida. Moving to New York was a huge step for me, while it was exciting, but it also meant leaving behind my family, my friends, and that safety net I could always count on. Back home, if I was stressed or having a rough day, I could just pull up to my mom’s house or my best friend’s house and instantly feel grounded.
Now, being in New York, I don’t have that same physical closeness, and it’s taught me a lot about independence, emotional strength, and finding peace within myself. It’s not always easy, but it’s pushed me to grow and to create my own sense of home, wherever I am.
Alright, so if you are open to it, let’s explore some philosophical questions that touch on your values and worldview. Is the public version of you the real you?
Yes, the public version of me is the real me. I’ve always believed in authenticity and showing up as myself unapologetically. I don’t believe in putting on a façade just to fit in or be accepted. What you see is truly who I am. My energy, my personality, my style, and my heart. I think there’s real power in being genuine, especially in a world that often celebrates perfection. I’d rather be real than perfect any day.
Before we go, we’d love to hear your thoughts on some longer-run, legacy type questions. What false labels are you still carrying?
The false label I’m still learning to let go of is what I call the “white cape” or superhero syndrome. That constant feeling that I have to save everyone. For a long time, I carried the weight of wanting to fix things for people I care about, even at the expense of myself. I’ve realized that while it comes from a place of love and empathy, it can also be draining.
I’m learning that it’s okay to show up for others without losing myself in the process. I can care deeply, but I don’t have to carry everything. Taking off that “cape” has been one of the hardest but most freeing lessons, understanding that I can’t pour from an empty cup, and that saving myself first doesn’t make me selfish; it makes me strong.
Contact Info:
- Website: https://www.stylesbywinn.com/
- Instagram: Stylesbywinn
- Facebook: https://Facebook.com/wwintons
- Other: TikTok: Winnthestylist
Image Credits
Model/Realtor: Shajamia Axson
Stylist: Wilnesha Wintons
Photographer: Ashley Williams
