There is no one path – to success or even to New York (or Kansas). Similarly, what matters to others can vary widely – so we tried to tighten up that question to focus on three key traits to see what most folks in our community valued most – intelligence, energy, or integrity?
Erika Alonso
I think all three — intelligence, energy, and integrity — work together. You can’t really succeed in a meaningful way if one of them is missing. You can have all the intelligence and energy in the world, but without integrity, your success won’t last or feel right. Read more>>
Marco Zanna
If I had to choose between intelligence, energy, and integrity, integrity would come first. With integrity, intelligence is guided toward good decisions, and energy is channeled productively and ethically. Read more>>
Gina Damato
For me, integrity is the most important, both in business and in life. Integrity, matched with authenticity, is such a rare and invaluable combination in today’s world, but something I am known for. In the wedding industry especially, our clients are trusting us with some of the most meaningful moments of their lives. Read more>>
Cara Pitch Gregg
Honestly, I would say energy, hands down. You can feel someone’s energy the moment they walk into a room—it tells you everything you need to know before they even say a word. When someone brings positive, genuine energy, it inspires everyone around them and sets the tone for the whole environment. It’s kinda like ballet—it sets the foundation for all other forms of dance. Read more>>
pilar de seta
Intelligence, energy, and integrity are all essential qualities, but integrity is the one I value most. Read more>>
Nat Lopez
For me, integrity is at the core of everything I do, both personally and professionally. It’s the foundation that guides how I treat people, how I show up for my clients, and how I make decisions. Intelligence and energy are valuable, but without integrity, neither can be sustained in a meaningful way. Read more>>
Christa Gurka
Integrity. Because without integrity, intelligence and energy can actually become dangerous. You can be the smartest and most driven person in the room, but if you don’t have integrity…if people can’t trust you, depend on your word, or believe your intentions none of that matters. Integrity creates the foundation for everything else. It’s what builds lasting relationships, strong teams, and sustainable success. Read more>>
Felicia Daniels, MS
I believe one’s energy is the most important as it is among the initial encounters. Integrity and intelligence are just as significant in importance. Intelligence and Integrity are recognized after the first encounter. Energy also cannot be altered. Intelligence can be obtained, and integrity can be developed but energy is constant as only its presence and purpose transforms. Read more>>
