Today we’d like to introduce you to Olivia Dydyna.
Hi Olivia, so excited to have you with us today. What can you tell us about your story?
I was always the girl searching for love and connection only to find that I was so disconnected from myself. Constantly plagued by confusion, not knowing who I am or what I wanted, I felt like life was happening to me. Yet, I considered myself self-aware as I was doing the “work”. Reading books, going to workshops and learning so much about energy, psychology and spirituality. I discuss this in greater detail of how I broke the curse of attracting emotionally unavailable men and bad sexual experiences in my chapter “In Tuned and Turned On: A Girl’s Search for Orgasm” of the co-authored bestseller, We are the Sacred Feminine Rising, but what I want to share with you is that the solution to my problems was not something I could think my way through. As our ego has a stronghold on us, consciously I wasn’t able to step into these feelings I repressed majority of my life. But the thing about suppressed emotions, they end up showing up in different parts of your life. If I wasn’t being disrespected by the men I was dating, I was being walked all over by co-workers. Through each meditation and healing session, I unlocked a piece to the puzzle until finally I cracked the code.
I had to get out of my mind and into my body to find the answers. It was through meditation, plant medicine and breath-work that I was able to tap into my subconscious to understand why I was creating such confusion in my life. And what does that exactly look like? It was something as simple as meditating and recalling a memory of childhood and curiously exploring why it’s popping up.
The “work” was about me facing emotions such as loneliness, fear, shame instead of pushing them away. It was time to finally see all of me. By holding myself tenderly in these “not so fun” states, I began to understand the practical application of “self-love” that everyone raves about. Feelings and emotions are your superpowers. By going through these emotions and not fearing them, you are able to transmute these emotional states to work with you, not against you. That sadness can turn into pleasure. The anger can be used as motivation. The more you step into these feelings, they no longer control you. They become your greatest teacher and expander.
Through these experiences, I pursued a tantric approach to sex, love and relationships. While I was the only one able to heal myself, I didn’t do this alone. It was through the safety of being held by friends and practitioners that I was able to step into the fear of the unknown. Once I was able to be vulnerable with myself in the presence of the other, I experienced a love and empowerment that I never knew existed. The answers were within me all along, but being guided by someone allowed me to explore these parts of me safely.
Now I guide clients to safely explore these unknown parts of themselves and the truth is, it’s not as scary as our mind makes it out to be. That tingle in your throat, that heaviness in your heart, it has knowledge to share with you. I teach people how to reconnect with their body and soul so that they can be an energetic match to their desires. Whether in the realms of sex or relationships, the tools I use allow you to experience the wisdom your body is communicating to you with curiosity and playfulness. Stepping out of my mind and into my body allowed me to experience real magic and that’s the gift I want to share with everyone.
We’ve been impressed with Be Sexessful, but for folks who might not be as familiar, what can you share with them about what you do and what sets you apart from others?
Be Sexessful was created to empower you to use your sexual energy as creative energy.
So what does that really mean? Today, society has lost the sacredness of sex and has reduced it to just a physical act – void of emotion and feeling. Sex is sexual energy exchange and it’s through experiencing this energy that I was able to shift my beliefs around sex, relationships and life. I use the VITA method, a vital integrated tantric approach to sex, love and relationships which allows you to rekindle your mind-body connection. Through this alignment of your mind and body, you’re able to be an energetic match for your desires. I show my clients the practical applications of these ancient techniques and my methods include energy embodiment, inner child work, and breath-work.
What sets me apart from other coaches is that as a reflector, I’m able to mirror your energy as well as take on the energy of your higher self or inner child. While I guide you to do this yourself, I’m also able to channel this information with your permission. With the help of your guides and my guides, I communicate to your body to release any stagnant energy or activate certain energy centers. My approach is playful and curious as “doing the work” wasn’t meant to be so serious.
If you’re ready to experience a deeper connection with yourself and the world around you then I invite you to connect with me and learn more about the power of co-active coaching. At this time, I offer 1:1 coaching and curate ten sessions unique to the desire you’re trying to achieve.
If we knew you growing up, how would we have described you?
Baby O used to reenact the famous Little Mermaid scene in the bathtub, where Ariel sings “Part of Your World” and jumps up on the rock. You could say that Disney had a huge impact on how I yearned for love even as a little girl. My world was filled with dress-up, fairies and mermaids. Always wanting to play and connect with others. In my teenage years, I began dabbling in witchy things such as spells and tarot cards. Gypsies fascinated me for they had psychic powers and were able to see past people’s masks and even read minds. I used to think that you could only be born with a psychic gift but over the years, I realized psychic abilities are simply a muscle that you can train. Today, I consider myself a love witch (a white witch of course). At 28, I have re-connected with my fairy, mermaid and witch essence and want others to experience that magic does exist. This passion for connection and love has shaped me into the woman I am today and for the first time in my life, I am pursuing a career that is deeply aligned with my soul.
Contact Info:
- Email: olivia@besexessful.com
- Website: https://www.besexessful.com/
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/prettygypsydreams/
- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/olivia.dydyna
- Other: https://www.amazon.com/Are-Sacred-Feminine-Rising-Transformation-ebook/dp/B09B6M6SZC
Image Credits
Photographer Corinne Mount instagram @coco2519 website: candidsbycorinne.squarespace.com
