We recently had the chance to connect with Taylor and have shared our conversation below.
Good morning Taylor, we’re so happy to have you here with us and we’d love to explore your story and how you think about life and legacy and so much more. So let’s start with a question we often ask: What is something outside of work that is bringing you joy lately?
There’s a very sweet family of ducks in my neighborhood that approach me ALL THE TIME. I know someone is feeding them, and that’s why they’re so friendly, but it makes me feel like a Disney princess every time. Imagine a mama duck and her ten little ducklings running right up to you day after day. It brings me so much joy.
Can you briefly introduce yourself and share what makes you or your brand unique?
My name is Taylor. I am the creator and host of Bottums Up, a podcast focused on LGBT+ life and culture in South Florida. I started my podcast as a way to connect with my community while also highlighting local leaders.
Okay, so here’s a deep one: What did you believe about yourself as a child that you no longer believe?
That I was straight . . . There were a lot of messages fed to me as a kid, both from my close family and society at large. We all deal with it.
Growing up, I was inundated with children’s media that was filled with hetero relationships. And it wasn’t just couples happening to appear in shows; straight relationships were always major plot points. This made it more difficult for me to understand that I might be gay. Plus, it made it seem like hectic romantic relationships were just a part of life, when the reality is the exact opposite. I could have saved myself so much stress as a teen and young adult if I didn’t put so much weight on dating.
What did suffering teach you that success never could?
Suffering taught me how unnecessary it is. To suffer does not automatically mean success. Likewise, success does not only come with suffering. Life inherently comes with difficulties, but we don’t have to accept strife as a permanent part of our existence. If a situation isn’t working, remove yourself from it!
I think our readers would appreciate hearing more about your values and what you think matters in life and career, etc. So our next question is along those lines. What’s a belief or project you’re committed to, no matter how long it takes?
Human beings inherently desire and need connection with each other, not matter how much American society pushes this idea of individualism being the best. The whole “male loneliness epidemic” is a symptom of a much larger problem: we fundamentally don’t know how to be in community with each other. This needs to change. It’s not healthy for us.
Okay, we’ve made it essentially to the end. One last question before you go. Could you give everything your best, even if no one ever praised you for it?
Absolutely. I know the impact that my work has on the greater community, but more importantly, I know the impact it has had on me. I’m much happier and more fulfilled in my life now that I have my podcast. It’s brought me endless joy and opportunity. I’d give my best because I know it’s what I deserve.
Contact Info:
- Website: https://bottumsup.weebly.com
- Instagram: bottumsup.pod
- Facebook: Bottums Up Podcast
- Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@BottumsUpPod
Image Credits
First image is by Tere Mendez, all others are my own.
